Friday, October 17, 2008

Giving vs. Gullable continued

So...the guy didn't get a hold of us yesterday...which at this time lends one to think that I may have fallen on the gullable side of this fence...which is not my favorite thing in the world. I realize what my fatal flaw is...my success in giving became dependant on him returning the gift. I was allowing him to borrow it based on his terms and conditions and therefor my experience is valid when he upholds those. I gave him the power to define if I am giving or gullable. I should have defined my own rules that were dependent on my own actions...I should have just given him the money with no way to give it back. I think that was my fatal flaw.


...sigh.

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